Ask Tamara: Best Friend Disapproves of My New Relationship!

Dear Tamara:
 
Shortly after my divorce I began dating a man of another race. When I told my best friend about the relationship, she freaked out and didn’t hold back her disapproval about man that I was seeing and the fact that he is white. Since then our friendship has changed. We have been best friends for over 20 years and often talked on the phone two to three times a day. Since I told her about my new relationship, we barely talk once a week. And when we do, I am usually the one to call and our conversation has been strained. I don’t want to lose my best friend, and cannot imagine my life without her. I can’t believe she is acting like this. I want to save the friendship, but at the same time, I do not want to end my new relationship. Things are getting pretty serious and I want to see where things go. What should I do?
 
Friends Til the End

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FAST FACTS

By CADL Library Staff 
 
Whether you’re searching for ways to save money this holiday season, thinking of trying some new recipes, or looking forward to sharing special stories with your kids.
 
Start with these staff-recommended titles. You can find them in our libraries or by searching the online catalog at cadl.org/catalog. Enjoy!

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ST. STEPHEN’S WILL INTRODUCE NEW PASTOR AT ANNUAL KWANZAA CELEBRATION

LANSING, MI — Committees are meeting, people are planning, drummers are preparing, and singers are rehearsing for St. Stephen’s Community Church, U.C.C. 24th   Annual Kwanzaa Celebration.

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Interpersonal EDGE: Sailing Through Workplace Change

By Dr. Daneen Skube
Tribune Media Services
 
Q. I started out my career planning to be in one industry but have ended up in another. It seems that every time I get my goals planned in one direction, another direction opens up and messes up my plan. How do you recommend people deal with careers when every plan is subject to change?
 

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The HIV/AIDS Epidemic: Why It’s Still Taboo

By Karla Robinson, MD
 
V/AIDS remains a huge burden in the Black community.  According to recent estimates from the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) roughly one-half of all new HIV/AIDS diagnoses are in African Americans.  The infection rate statistics are sobering.  1 in every 16 Black men and 1 in every 30 Black women will be infected with HIV in their lifetime.

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Retire Smart: Vanishing Pensions Another Case of Corporate Greed?

By Mark Miller
Tribune Media Services
 
  Stock market crashes have become fairly regular events since the economy collapsed in 2008 and 2009. Each time the market plunges, you can count on seeing a flurry of news reports looking at just how badly workplace 401(k) retirement portfolios have been hit. Rarely will you see a story asking why the market risk is born by individual workers; it’s just an assumed sub-text that we all must rely on the market, because employers no longer can afford to provide traditional defined benefit pensions.

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News Spotlight: Fire in Lansing Displaces 20 Families

 Lansing Fire Department is still working at determining a cause for last nights apartment fire in the 3900 block of Burneway. Approximately 20 people were left homeless after the fire destroyed one unit severely, damaged another and caused damage to adjoining others. Some residents are being allowed to move back in today. 

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News Spotlight: BUS SERVICE CHANGES FOR WINTER BREAK

LANSING, MI – The following CATA services operating on MSU campus will conclude for the holiday season as follows:

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News Spotlight: Backpacks, not the bombs inside, key to finding DNA

EAST LANSING, MI — Catching terrorists who detonate bombs may be easier by testing the containers that hide the bombs rather than the actual explosives, according to pioneering research led by Michigan State University.
 

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